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Hard. Hard. Truth.⁠

SO MUCH EASIER to just blame the kids, or the hubby or society and lack of child care options than it is to just work on ourselves and the real things that hold us back.⁠

Our own minds.⁠

I’m not saying it wouldn’t be nice for those things to be lined up and helping us. Just saying it’s not as crucial to our success as we like to make it out to be.⁠

Logistically is it easier to package up orders without a toddler screaming for a snack?⁠

Maybe, maybe not. Who knows? I’ve heard of some pretty needy co-workers before 🤣⁠

But really – maybe logistically it’s harder. But that’s because we are using logistics and mindsets useful for different circumstances.⁠

You need tools and mindsets that work for what YOU are trying to accomplish as a mom running a business from home.⁠

Blaming your kids isn’t doing you or them any favors.⁠

We are already resentful for those sweet little bundles did to our bodies,🤣 lets not add the responsibility of them being the reason we didn’t achieve our dreams.⁠

That isn’t their fault, or their responsibility.⁠

There is no reason we can’t do both, without the overwhelm and resentment.⁠

There is no reason it can’t be easier and joyful.⁠

And then we have the added bonus of being able to share it all with them and show them what’s possible for them too when they believe in themselves and learn how to be the people they truly want to be.⁠

I like to think of that as the most motherly gift we can give them… but that’s just me. 

What about you? What are your current thoughts or beliefs about that?

I’d love to hear them and get your opinions below in the comments 👇🏼👇🏼💕